Yes. RattleStork is designed for people who approach their desire for a child consciously and responsibly. You can compare profiles, ideas, and expectations at your own pace before making contact.
100,000+ people on their journey to family
Find people who truly share your desire for children
You want to have a child, but not in the traditional way?
On RattleStork, you meet sperm donors, co-parents, and people with the desire for children – with clear profiles, without a romantic relationship.
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- Clear profiles
- discrete & without a dating focus
100,000+ registered people
Sperm donors, co-parents & people with the desire for children
3 new contacts for free
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You control who sees you and who you message
How RattleStork works
A sensitive path needs a safe, clear framework
You don't have to make all decisions right away. The first step is simply to gain a clear overview and discover suitable people.
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Clear Profiles
Tell us in a few minutes what path to family you are looking for and what is important to you.
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Matching People
View profiles and filter by the criteria that really matter to you.
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Make discreet contact
Start conversations when it feels right, and then decide step by step.
The RattleStork Way
From the desire for a child to desired child
Create your profile, discover matching people, and start respectful conversations without the pressure of dating. Discreet, moderated, and with 3 new contacts for free.
Many paths to fulfilling a wish for a child
Find people who fit your path to a child
Whether you already know exactly who you are looking for or just want to compare options: discover profiles, expectations, and paths that suit your wish for a child.
Co-ParentingShare parenthood consciously
Find people with similar ideas about responsibility, daily life, and the relationship with the child.
Sperm DonationDiscover suitable donor profiles
Compare conditions, details, and expectations before making contact.
Solo with a desire for a childPlan independently
Discover people who respect your path and fit your expectations.
LGBTQ+ Family PlanningPlan openly and safely
Find people who are open to different paths to family.
Couples with a desire for a childFind suitable contacts together
Start your search with clear expectations and suitable profiles.
Still unsure?First compare options
Read profiles, discover paths, and calmly find what fits you.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes. You decide what to share, whom to contact, and when to take the next step. You can first get an overview and only write when a profile feels right.
RattleStork supports various paths to parenthood: solo child wish, couples wanting children, LGBTQ+ family planning, co-parenting, and sperm donation. It is important that all parties involved have clear ideas and respect for one another.
You can identify reliable contacts by clear profile information, respectful communication, and realistic expectations. Take your time, compare profiles, and only take the next step when the contact feels right.
After the first contact, you decide how to proceed. It is important to discuss expectations, boundaries, health, and legal questions openly before making personal decisions.
You can create a profile and discover suitable profiles in just a few minutes. However, take your time to provide honest information — the clearer your profile is, the better the contacts will align.
No. You can start for free and make up to 3 new contact attempts. Premium is optional and worthwhile if you want to search more actively, write more, and see when someone was last active.