Fertility changes gradually: it becomes measurable in the early 30s, accelerates around 35, and declines markedly after 40. This is not meant to alarm, but to encourage getting clarity in time. Knowing your ovarian reserve, how age affects egg quality, and which options are realistic helps you make better decisions—whether a spontaneous pregnancy, optimized timing, or social freezing.
For reliable orientation we recommend clinical guidelines and databases such as guidance on fertility problems, infertility information, the CDC ART statistics, and position papers from ESHRE and WHO.
Ovarian reserve (AMH & AFC) – your biological "savings account"
The number of follicles is fixed at birth and declines over life. Two measures give a good overview of the remaining reserve:
- AMH (anti-Müllerian hormone): a blood value that reflects the size of the active follicle pool. Low AMH suggests a smaller reserve; high AMH suggests a larger one.
- AFC (antral follicle count): ultrasound count of small follicles at the start of the cycle; informative together with AMH for planning.
| Measure | What it shows | Typical use |
|---|---|---|
| AMH | Size of the follicle pool | Screening, monitoring, stimulation planning |
| AFC | Number of visible antral follicles | Cycle-start ultrasound, reserve estimation |
| FSH (days 2–5) | Pituitary signaling | Elevated = indicator of reduced reserve |
Interpretation belongs in experienced hands. Clinical guidelines recommend structured evaluation before treatment decisions are made.
Age & egg quality: what happens in the ovary
- Chromosome distribution: with increasing age, aneuploidy rates rise, which increases miscarriage risk and can impair implantation.
- Mitochondria & energy: eggs from older individuals often have reduced "energy reserves," which can affect early embryo development.
- Hormonal dynamics: cycle phases can shorten; the "window" for implantation may become narrower.
- Overall effect: lower reserve and reduced egg quality explain why additional support is often advisable from the mid/late 30s.
Numbers & success rates – realistic expectations
Natural chance per cycle: roughly 25–30% under 30, 10–15% at 35, and often <5% after 40. These ranges vary with cycle regularity, partner sperm, and medical history.
Miscarriage risk: increases with age (aneuploidy). Individual counseling is recommended, especially after recurrent losses.
IVF/ICSI: age-dependent success rates are reported in national registries; a useful overview is provided by the CDC ART National Summary and the Success Estimator.
Improving egg quality – effective levers
- Don't smoke: tobacco accelerates ovarian aging; quitting is beneficial immediately.
- Weight & metabolism: aim for a stable BMI in the normal range and good insulin sensitivity.
- Alcohol & environment: avoid heavy drinking; reduce exposure to endocrine disruptors (BPA/plasticizers).
- Sleep & shift work: consistent sleep patterns improve hormonal balance.
- Exercise & stress management: moderate exercise, breathing/relaxation techniques.
- Partner check: a semen analysis clarifies whether male factors contribute.
Guidelines emphasize lifestyle interventions as a foundation—medical treatment options build on these (see clinical guidance).
Testing fertility – AMH, AFC & cycle tracking
- AMH blood test: reserve marker; sensible as a baseline from the early 30s, then repeated periodically.
- AFC ultrasound: counting antral follicles at cycle start; very helpful when combined with AMH.
- Cycle tracking: LH urine tests, basal body temperature, cervical mucus, or wearables to identify the fertile window.
- Additional diagnostics as indicated: thyroid function, prolactin, insulin resistance, vitamin D, coagulation; evaluate for endometriosis if suspected.
Guidance: under 35, seek medical advice after 12 months without pregnancy; at 35 or older, seek advice after 6 months (recommendations include the NHS).
Social freezing – process, chances & costs
Process
- 10–12 days of stimulation with daily injections
- Monitoring with ultrasound and hormone measurements
- Egg retrieval under short anesthesia (≈ 15 minutes)
- Vitrification at −196 °C
Chances of success
The younger the eggs are at freezing, the higher the later chance per egg. Under 35, target ranges of about 12–20 eggs are often discussed; with increasing age the probability per egg declines. Ethical and medical aspects: ESHRE guidance.
Costs
- Stimulation cycle: approx. $3,000–4,500
- Storage per year: approx. $200–300
- Insurance coverage is usually limited to medical indications
For context on success rates, consult national registries, e.g., the CDC data.
Medical conditions & risks – when to look closer
Factors that may play a role include endometriosis (adhesions, pain), PCOS (ovulatory issues, insulin resistance), thyroid dysfunction, hyperprolactinemia, and coagulation disorders (e.g., factor V Leiden). With cycle irregularities, severe pain, recurrent miscarriages, or 6–12+ months of unsuccessful attempts, referral to a fertility clinic is advisable.
Your plan starting today
- Baseline check: have AMH & AFC measured in the coming weeks.
- Refine timing: track 2–3 cycles with LH tests + basal temperature.
- Leverage lifestyle: quit smoking, regular sleep, exercise, nutrition, reduce alcohol.
- Clarify options: spontaneous attempts vs. IUI/IVF, possibly social freezing; arrange personalized counseling.
- Check partner factor: schedule a semen analysis if appropriate.
Sperm donation with RattleStork – an option without a partner
If you lack a partner or male factors limit fertility, you can explore vetted donor profiles, make contact, and plan procedures with the RattleStork app—from anonymous donation to co-parenting or home insemination. This helps you make informed decisions that fit your situation.

Conclusion
You cannot stop time—but you can make use of it. Knowing your reserve and risks, optimizing timing, and soberly evaluating options like social freezing or assisted reproduction measurably improves your chances. For guidance and planning see resources from WHO, NICE, NHS, CDC ART, and ESHRE.

