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Haemorrhoids in the postnatal period: why they occur and how to relieve them safely

Haemorrhoids after childbirth are common and can be very uncomfortable in the postnatal period, especially when sitting and during bowel movements. Many people want quick relief but are unsure what actually helps and what only irritates. This guide gives you a clear explanation, safe relief strategies and warning signs when a check-up is sensible.

A person sitting carefully on a soft cushion holding a hot water bottle, symbolising discomfort from haemorrhoids in the postnatal period

What haemorrhoids actually are

Haemorrhoids are not a foreign body but vascular cushions in the rectum that everyone has. They help to keep the anus sealed. Symptoms occur when these cushions swell, protrude or become inflamed.

In everyday language, haemorrhoids are often used as a catch-all for anything that itches, hurts or bleeds around the anus. That is why a clear distinction is useful so you do not treat the wrong problem.

Why haemorrhoids are so common after birth

Several factors come together in the postnatal period. Pregnancy increases pressure in the pelvis, tissues are more blood-filled and the veins are under strain. During birth, pushing and stretching add to this.

After birth, practical factors often worsen symptoms: fear of pain, less movement, unfamiliar toilet routines and constipation. If stool is hard or you have to strain, the vascular cushion is additionally irritated.

Typical aggravating factors in the postnatal period

  • Constipation and hard stool, often due to stress, lack of sleep, not drinking enough or iron supplements
  • Straining during bowel movements
  • Sitting for long periods, especially on hard surfaces
  • Pain or scarring in the perineal area that causes unconscious tightening during toilet visits

How haemorrhoids can feel

Many people notice pain mainly during bowel movements, burning, itching or a feeling of pressure in the anal area. Sometimes there is bright red blood on the toilet paper or on the stool. This can be alarming but is often superficial with haemorrhoids.

Common symptoms

  • Pain during or after bowel movements
  • Itching, burning, irritated skin
  • Pressure sensation or lumps at the anus
  • Bright red streaks of blood, usually small amounts

A good general overview of how haemorrhoids develop and common self-help measures is available from the NHS. NHS: Piles haemorrhoids

Important: not everything is a haemorrhoid

In the postnatal period, haemorrhoids are often confused with two other conditions. This is not being fussy but practical, because treatment can differ.

Anal vein thrombosis

This is a sudden, very painful lump at the anus, often with a strong feeling of pressure. It can appear blue-violet and is frequently painful even when not passing stool. Sometimes it is called an external haemorrhoid, but it is a different condition.

Anal fissure

A fissure is a small tear in the skin. Typical is a sharp, stabbing pain during bowel movements, often like a cut, and sometimes persistent burning afterwards. Here stool softening and reducing irritation are especially important.

Safe relief: what usually helps in the postnatal period

The goal is not to make everything disappear. The goal is less pressure, less irritation and a bowel movement without straining. If this is achieved, many people’s symptoms settle within days to a few weeks.

Keep stool soft without drama

  • Drink regularly spread over the day
  • Fibre from food, for example oats, fruit, vegetables, psyllium husk with plenty of water
  • Short toilet sessions, do not sit on the toilet for long
  • If necessary, in consultation with your medical team a stool softener, especially if straining is otherwise unavoidable

The NIDDK provides a clear explanation of why soft stool and avoiding straining are central to managing haemorrhoids. NIDDK: Haemorrhoids

Sitz baths, cooling, heat

A sitz bath can be comforting if kept short and the water is lukewarm. Some people benefit more from cooling, others from gentle warmth. The key is that it soothes and does not dry out or sting.

  • Keep sitz baths short and lukewarm, then pat gently dry
  • Cool compresses for swelling, but not ice-cold and not directly on bare skin
  • Heat is better for muscle tension if it feels soothing

Ointments, suppositories and what to bear in mind

Many ask about an ointment because they hope for quick relief. Topical treatments can reduce symptoms such as itching and burning, but they do not fix the underlying problem if you continue to strain. Use for a short period, with a clear indication and good tolerability. If you are breastfeeding or unsure, a pharmacist is a good point of contact to choose a suitable product and avoid interactions.

Hygiene without irritation

  • After bowel movements, if possible, clean with water or with soft, unscented toilet paper
  • Avoid aggressive wet wipes with fragrances or alcohol
  • Breathable underwear, avoid tight seams that chafe

Everyday tips that are often underestimated

In the postnatal period, it is often the small things that make a difference. If you are in pain, you may unconsciously tense up, hold your breath and end up straining anyway.

Practical relief

  • Soft seat cushion or sitting sideways if sitting directly is painful
  • Getting up over the side rather than straight up to reduce downward pressure
  • During bowel movements, raise your feet slightly to make it easier
  • If you notice yourself straining, stop briefly, exhale and try again

When a check-up is sensible

Many cases are unpleasant but manageable. However, there are clear situations where you should not just wait, because something else may be going on or because you are suffering unnecessarily.

Seek assessment if

  • you have heavy bleeding or blood in the stool that becomes more frequent or larger
  • you notice dizziness, marked weakness or a fast heartbeat
  • you have a fever or the area is very red, hot and increasingly painful
  • you develop a suddenly very painful, hard lump
  • you have no noticeable improvement after one to two weeks despite soft stool and relieving measures

If you feel that the symptoms are disrupting your daily life in the postnatal period, that alone is a good reason to seek help. You do not have to endure it to prove anything to yourself.

Myths and facts in the postnatal period

  • Myth: An ointment alone will solve the problem. Fact: Relief mostly comes from soft stool and less straining.
  • Myth: Blood always means something dangerous. Fact: Bright red blood can occur with haemorrhoids, but heavier or persistent bleeding should be checked.
  • Myth: Sitz baths must be hot. Fact: Lukewarm is often better tolerated; too hot can irritate.
  • Myth: You must not talk about bowel movements. Fact: Talking about it is often the lever that brings the quickest relief.

Conclusion

Haemorrhoids after childbirth are common, especially when constipation and straining occur. The safest measures are to keep stool soft, reduce irritation and adjust daily life to reduce pressure. Sitz baths and ointments can ease symptoms, but the most important step is a stress-free bowel movement. If bleeding increases, large painful lumps develop or there is no improvement, seek assessment.

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Frequently asked questions about haemorrhoids in the postnatal period

For many people symptoms improve significantly within days to a few weeks, especially if stool is soft and you avoid straining; persistent or worsening symptoms are more likely to need assessment.

The greatest relief usually comes from soft stool without straining, combined with short toilet sessions, gentle hygiene and, depending on what feels best, a sitz bath or cooling, because this reduces irritation and swelling.

That depends on your symptoms, because some products help more with itching and burning while others are more soothing, so a brief consultation at the pharmacy or clinic is sensible, especially if you are breastfeeding or have sensitive skin.

A short lukewarm sitz bath can soothe and relax the area, but it should not be too hot and it is important to dry gently afterwards so the skin is not additionally irritated.

A suddenly appearing very hard, extremely painful lump or a sharp stabbing pain like a cut during bowel movements may be more consistent with an anal vein thrombosis or fissure and is a good reason to get it checked.

Small bright red streaks of blood can occur with haemorrhoids, but heavier bleeding, repeated blood in the stool or associated dizziness are reasons to seek medical assessment promptly.

Breastfeeding itself does not cause haemorrhoids, but if it leads to you drinking less or becoming more constipated, it can indirectly worsen symptoms, so keeping well hydrated and maintaining soft stool is particularly important.

If you have severe pain, fever, heavy or increasing bleeding, a suddenly very painful lump, or no clear improvement after one to two weeks, medical assessment is advisable.

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