100,000+ people on their way to family

Find people who truly share your desire for a child

Do you want to have a child, but not in the traditional way?

On RattleStork, you’ll meet sperm donors, co-parents, and people wanting children – with clear profiles, without any romantic relationship.

  • Get started for free
  • Clear profiles
  • discreet & without a dating focus
  • 100,000+ registered individuals

    Sperm donors, co-parents & people wanting children

  • 3 new contacts for free

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  • Moderated Profiles

    Report, block & protection from spam

  • Discreet & private

    You control who sees you and who you message

How RattleStork Works

A sensitive journey needs a safe, clear framework

You don't have to decide everything at once. The first step is just to get a clear overview and discover suitable people.

  • CP

    Clear Profiles

    Tell us in a few minutes what path to family you are looking for and what matters to you.

  • MP

    Matching People

    Check out profiles and filter by the criteria that really matter to you.

  • DC

    Contact Discreetly

    Start conversations when it feels right, and decide step by step from there.

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The RattleStork Way

From desire for a child to desired child

Create your profile, discover matching people, and start respectful conversations without dating pressure. Discreet, moderated, and with 3 new contacts for free.

Many paths to fulfilling your wish for a child

Find people who fit your path to a child

Whether you know exactly who you're looking for or want to compare options: Discover profiles, expectations, and paths that align with your desire for a child.

  • Co-Parenting

    Share parenthood consciously

    Find people with similar ideas about responsibility, daily life, and the relationship with the child.

  • Sperm Donation

    Discover suitable donor profiles

    Compare conditions, details, and expectations before making contact.

  • Solo with a wish for a child

    Plan independently

    Discover people who respect your path and align with your expectations.

  • LGBTQ+ Family Planning

    Plan openly and safely

    Find people who are open to different paths to family.

  • Couples with a wish for a child

    Find suitable contacts together

    Start your search with clear expectations and suitable profiles.

  • Still unsure?

    First compare options

    Read profiles, discover paths, and calmly find what fits you.

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FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. RattleStork is designed for people who are approaching their wish for a child consciously and responsibly. You can compare profiles, ideas, and expectations at your own pace before reaching out.

Yes. You decide what to share, who to contact, and when to take the next step. You can first get an overview and only write when a profile feels right.

RattleStork supports various paths to parenthood: solo child wish, couples wanting children, LGBTQ+ family planning, co-parenting, and sperm donation. It's important that all parties have clear ideas and bring respect.

Serious contacts are recognizable by clear profile details, respectful communication, and realistic expectations. Take your time, compare profiles, and only take the next step when the contact feels right for you.

After the first contact, you decide how to proceed. It's important to discuss expectations, boundaries, health, and legal questions openly before making personal decisions.

You can create a profile and discover matching profiles in just a few minutes. Still, take your time for honest details — the clearer your profile is, the better the matches.

No. You can start for free and make up to three new contact attempts. Premium is optional and worth it if you want to search more actively, write more, and see when someone was last active.

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